I started this blog just before the Valentine's Day and then I realized it's going to take some time to put together a detailed answer. So let's see what I came up with. If you don't agree with something I wrote here - feel free to let me know.
Why do women like to spend so much money on dresses, shoes, bags and makeup?
Well, first of all, because beautiful things make women look more beautiful too. Women are never happy with the way they look. That's why they want to try new things all the time.
It has to do with the hormones, of course. The hormones are substances that affect women's brains. Weather, stress, sleep deprivation and children's tantrums can be additional triggers that cause hormonal imbalance and make women emotional and irritable.
Why are women sometimes critical of other women?
Women just feel more comfortable hanging out with those girls who don't outshine them. Those who show off their good looks, nice clothes, intelligence and overall perfection risk being bad-mouthed and gossiped about.
Why do women like to spend hours on shopping?
Men and women have different views on what shopping is about. Men see it as a chore that needs to be finished as quickly as possible. Women enjoy the process itself. The like to try it on, look at themselves in the mirror, ask the salesperson’s opinion, then ask the guy’s opinion. They call it retail therapy. It’s a way to take the focus off daily stresses and increase the level of serotonin in our systems.
Why do women take so long to get ready?
Because looking good is a complex, time consuming task. Every part of a woman's body requires special treatment. Eyes need eye cream. Face needs tonic and mosturizer. Neck requires neck firming cream. And Body needs Shaving and the Body Lotion. Every day we are puzzled with the same question: «What to wear?» "I've got all this clothes, but there is absolutely nothing to wear!!!» When we are getting ready to go out, we have to take care of so many details. Jewelry and shoes have to match the dress. Stockings have to match the shoes. Lingere has to match the stockings. The purse has to match the shoes. Nails have to match the lipstick and the lipstick has to match the colour of the hair. For men, such task would as difficult as the Fermat's Last Theorem
Why do women come up with all kinds of excuses when they don't want to make love?
Like «I have a headache», «it's late», «we'll wake up the baby» and so on.
Like «I have a headache», «it's late», «we'll wake up the baby» and so on.
Why can't they just say it straight that they don't want it? Women are so controversial. One one side they can easily accuse men of being mean, lasy, stupid and rude. On the other side they are being careful not to hurt them by saying that they don't want to have sex.
Why do women like flick chicks and flick chick celebrities?
Take Twilight Saga for instance. Although Robert Pattinson beat 3,000 auditionees to play Edward Cullen, in real life he is the total opposite of his twilight role. He is just an ordinary guy, a bit nervous at the interviews. Constantly giggling and tousling his hair. Contrarily, Edward is quiet and compelling. His golden eyes hypnotise and the scenes where he strokes and kisses Bella make the audience moan «Ohh». I assume he is either a really talented actor or just the right material molded by the movie artists into a magnetic enchanting heartthrob.
The movie directors are good psychologysts. They know what type of men women like and give them what they want. As a result their movies attract millions of female fans from around the world and earn nine digit revenues.
Now let's talk about those things that women don't understand about men.
Why are men so attached to woman's body? Why do they like to watch porn, go to strip clubs and check out attractive females on the streets, in the malls and at work? Even when they are married or have a girlfriend?
Could it be because men are polygamous by nature? Some scientists believe they are and it goes back to the tribal times when stronger, taller and bigger males would monopolise all the females in the group. Also they say that under certain circumstances, women would prefer to share men. For example, in societies where rich men are much richer than poor men, one-half, one-quarter, or even one-tenth of a wealthy man is still better than an entire poor man. As George Bernard Shaw puts it, "The maternal instinct leads a woman to prefer a tenth share in a first-rate man to the exclusive possession of a third-rate one.
In the modern society thanks to laws men have to be monogamous. Well, as they say the forbidden fruit is sweat.... That's why they hide Playboys under their beds, protect their computer files with long passwords and know everything about their female colleagues' body parts (like the bra size and whose butt is the best...)
Even if a guy says that he is a one-woman man, nothing can stop him from checking out other women. It just gives them the feeling of variety they all secretly want, it's their way of increasing serotonin, it's their stress therapy.
Hey ladies, want to draw their attention away from other women? Then stop talking about your medical problems, house renovation and financial issues. How about giving them some food for their imagination and appealing to their secret fantasies and dreams? Start by doing something dirty and provocative.
Some more truths about men....
Why do men prefer sex to talking?
Even though men may say that sex is not the only thing they want and that they like to be your soulmate and spend time with you chatting about things important to you, take it with a grain of salt. They like to talk about their own matters. And most of the times, they are wasting their breath. So they figure they’d rather have sex with the woman to utilize time spent with her more efficiently.
Why are men not able to multitask?
Did you notice that when your guy is busy with something, let’s say watching TV, writing an email, talking to a freind, it’s impossible to interrupt him no matter how badly you need his attention.
While women can easily discuss important matters while buying groceries or having their nails done, most men prefer to attend to one thing at a time. These differences between men and women are biologically based. Recent research has shown that male and female brains are composed of different amounts of grey and white matter. Women’s brains have more grey matter which is why they are so good at multi-tasking. Men have more white matter which gives them that incredible ability to do parallel parking in two quick and accurate maneuvers, as opposed to women's trying many times without any luck.
Why do men like to wear the same clothes and shoes for many years?
Men and women understand the purpose of clothes differently. For women, first of all, clothes have to go with fashion, which is always changing. Secondly, they are the means to emphasize the advantages and conceal the disadvantages of the woman's body, which is also always changing. Men value comfort, quality, easy care and durability of clothes and shoes. When they get clothes that meet those requirements they may stay in it for years.
Why do men become possessive?
Why do men become possessive?
Sometimes when you wear a dress that shows just a little bit of skin your partner may think that you are going to flirt with every single guy you meet on your way. While women dress like that just because they want to look attractive, guys actually worry that other men will be staring at your cleavage and looking up your skirt. And they don't want that like cats don't want other cats to cross their territories. Luckily, nowadays, except for the muslim countries, most men are quite democratic about women's clothes. Many, in fact, like to impress their pals with their wifes' assets. For them, it's the same as competing on who's car, boat or a digital camera is the coolest. Which can also be a sign of possessiveness. Is your guy acting possessive? Maybe he feels insecure about his relationship with you, maybe he is afraid to loose you. Talk to him to find out.
The best way to patch the holes in your relationship is to try to understand each other better. And i hope you'll be able to use some of my today tips for that.
Some well known facts about men and women:
- A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he wants.
- A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't want.
- A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.
- A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.
- A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.
- A successful woman is one who can find such a man.
- To be happy with a man you must understand him a lot and love him a little.
- To be happy with a woman you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.
- Married men live longer than single men.
- But married men are a lot more willing to die.
- Any married man should forget his mistakes.
- No sense two people remembering the same thing.
- Men wake up as good-looking as they went to bed.
- Women somehow deteriorate during the night.
- A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.
- A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change and she does.
- A woman has the last word in any argument.
- Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.
Less known facts about men and women:
- 90% of women wash their hands after using a public restroom; 75% of men do
- 70% of men shower daily. 57% of women shower daily
- Even though men are less sanitary than women, they carry fewer bacteria. Women carry twice the number of bacteria species than men did, even though women wash their hands more often and are more sanitary.
- 80% of school discipline is done to boys.
- High school dropout: 80% boys, 20% girls.
- 14% of 25-34 year old men live with their parents. 8% of 25-34 year old women live with their parents (US Census Bureau).
- A woman spends an average of 2 years of her life time looking at herself in the mirror; a man spends 6 months.
- However, men look at a reflection of themselves as often as women do; it is just that women take longer looks due to more necessary maintenance a woman has to do in front of a mirror.
- A woman speaks about 7,000 words a day; a man speaks about 2,000.
- British men waste 6 million hours of driving each year (burning gas and polluting their environment) because they do not stop to ask for directions.
- There are many more hyperactive boys than there are hyperactive girls. However, hyperactive boys normally cease being hyperactive as they grow. Hyperactive girls, on the other hand, become more distressed, perform poorly in school, become involved in abusive relationships, and get pregnant earlier in life.
- Men that are fat are happier than thin men. Fat women are not.
- Women, having stronger opinions regarding their home and family, tend to control household matters (housework, family times, family schedules, etc.). And husbands were the happiest if they did not disagree with these decisions regarding household matters. Husbands who had opinions about these issues were more likely to be involved in spousal arguments.
- There are about 3 million teachers in the United States. 75% are women; 25% are men.
- In elementary schools, 91% of teachers are women, and 9% are men.
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